The Importance
Of Connecting With
Local Authors
“We cannot live only for ourselves. A thousand fibers connect us with our fellow men; and among those fibers, as sympathetic threads, our actions run as causes, and they come back to us as effects.”
― Herman Melville
Whether you are published, self-published or working on your first draft, I know you have discovered the necessity of connecting with other authors.
When I found out I needed to create an online presence in order to promote myself, I can recall the beads of sweat forming on my forehead. My saving grace through it all has been the relationships I have made.
I'm not necessarily talking about personal friendships, but people who have supported me and my work. And who I in return do the same.
But I found I needed more
What I needed was to connect with authors on a more personal level. I know that many of you social media savvies out there have no problem with the world wide web and doing this digitally. However, I am no such creature.
The web seems to be more of what we can do for each other. Personal relationships are not about getting, but being gotten. Reveling in the knowledge that someone understands what motivates you and the importance of what you do.
Personally, I find it difficult to cultivate this without looking a person in the eye.
I began researching writers groups
I discovered I loved their stories, listening to
A support system is an absolute in every facet of life. We may have self-published, but self has nothing to do with it. Writing a book is not a solitary occupation.
We also need to broaden our beta reader group outside family and friends. Search out honest and productive criticism. Find people you can tell your fears and triumphs to.
Of course, you can find this in abundance on the web. But if you're like me, physical contact is necessary.
There's nothing like having these conversations with a cup of coffee in your hand and a sympathetic eye to look into.
There's nothing like connecting with people who have walked in your shoes.
Do you need to connect with other authors? Let me know.
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About A.E. Albert



ReplyDeleteI used to advertise The Representative, late last year, placing small paper cards here and there around my local area..
I had it back then, the appetite to advertise, but I don't have it anymore however. My recent experiences, of anxiety, or my reaction finally, to reality's being nothing more than repetition.. I'm too inundated with the discontent about what reality is!
I created The Representative, a definitive expression of humanity, but despite that unprecedented achievement I've still had to endure being a repetitive creature; I've still had to endure repeated feelings of the deepest worthlessness, or to endure repeated condescension, or to endure repeated feelings of tension, or repeatedly feeling that appreciating nature around me is "below pointless" - or that I'm a "dead-person living".
Marvel Studios, and their Phase Three.. The recently re-elected Conservative government, and its new proposed aim to change the Strike law (I wonder what The Representative would have to say about that).. The IMF.. Just another episode of AMC Movie Talk, and the same old bull****..
We're very fragile creatures, and it's never easy, standing up to a status quo - I just don't have the mental power anymore to do so.
The Representative exists.. that's good enough!
Enjoy the rest of your day Aimee.
I think changing the world doesn't have to be earth shattering. We do it in our small ways.
DeleteWonderful article, Aimee. You're absolutely right, no one really understands what we're doing, so finding others like us is a must. We all need some support to see us through both good and bad.
ReplyDeleteI think I would have creatively perished a long time ago without my kindred spirits.
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